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Sandra had worked with me on another issue three years prior and as a 32-year old professional with a young daughter, she now felt ready to focus on her weight challenge.  She felt she had tried every proven way to try to lose weight, but recognized that she had repeatedly sabotaged herself.  We began talking about her problem; she blamed her weight for her lack of self-confidence, her fear intimacy, her reluctance to try new activities, and her lack of energy.

She also felt a deep need to control every aspect of her life, scheduling practically every waking moment.  She felt that weight reduction would enable her to enjoy her life and be a positive role model for her child.

Actually, her weight was a symptom of greater, more deeply rooted problem.

What We Did Together

We identified how she would know the problem had disappeared, and what the outcome would be.  We then used several NLP, Time Empowerment™ & Hypnosis techniques to disconnect the behavior patterns (programs) her mind had been running since childhood.

She identified a goal she wanted to achieve and we set that goal in her future Time Line so her Unconscious Mind would know what to aim for.

The End Result

Over the following eight to ten months, although she didn’t focus on it in thought or eating habits, her weight dropped by over 60 pounds.

Today, she’s 72 pounds lighter than she was the day we completed her BreakThrough nearly two years ago.

Her Testimonial

“Flo helped me release old negative patterns of self-sabotage caused by child abuse. That was huge, absolutely huge to my self worth. I felt an immediate difference.

Flo’s is extremely compassionate. She has a way for people who have been failed by counseling, who have given up, who have issues with trust. She teaches people how to heal themselves.

She helped me manifest my dreams. I didn’t understand that I could aim high; I had limitations on my dreams. Now I don’t. It was worth everything I ever invested emotionally, physically or economically. I was trying to control my destiny; I wasn’t living in the moment. Now I have more freedom and enjoyment in my life.”

Sandra, Executive Director, Glens Falls, NY

Five-year-old Sandra was watching the Bad News Bears movie when the sounds of an argument prompted her go see what as going on. She peeked around a corner just in time to see her mother shot by her violent step-father. Her mother survived, and stayed with her abusive husband, and Sandra forever associated the Bad News Bears movie, the theme song, TV ads and billboard with this event, so much so that the mere sound or sight of this film would set off a panic attack.

What We Did Together

Twenty-seven years later, we met several times in a volunteer setting and she became a willing student for The Ultimate Breakthrough Program. I warned her that once we disconnected the old emotional response systems and behavior patterns she’d been running since she was five-years old, she might experience confusion at some points. This would mean that her mind could no longer run an old pattern, and wouldn’t know what to do. THAT’s when there’s an opportunity to create a new response to an old feeling.

The End Result

About 10 days later, I received a call from her, and her first words were, “I have to tell you something that happened that scared me at first. I was on the phone with my mother, and the TV was on. A Bad News Bears ad came on and I was overwhelmed with this weird feeling…I don’t know – it was kind of like fear! Then I remembered what you said about confusion, and realized that it wasn’t fear at all. Because nothing happened! I didn’t get a panic attack! You were absolutely right – the old pattern was gone, and until I caught on, I was confused! It was amazing!”

Her Testimonial

“I tended to be very angry but didn’t verbalize it. I had all this sadness and these self-worth issues. When we did the Breakthrough I realized this was something that went back to my childhood trauma. It even went back before my childhood. It was a family thing; it was generational.

Flo helped me release old negative patterns of self-sabotage caused by child abuse. That was huge, absolutely huge to my self worth. I felt an immediate difference.

Flo’s is extremely compassionate. She has a way for people who have been failed by counseling, who have given up, who have issues with trust. She teaches people how to heal themselves.

She helped me manifest my dreams. I didn’t understand that I could aim high; I had limitations on my dreams. Now I don’t. It was worth everything I ever invested emotionally, physically or economically. I was trying to control my destiny; I wasn’t living in the moment. Now I have more freedom and enjoyment in my life.”

Sandra, Executive Director, Glens Falls, NY

Pat came to me when she realized that all the “self-help” books on her bookshelf weren’t helping her resolve an issue that was having a major impact on her career. She felt unable to move forward and therefore, unable to succeed, both personally and professionally. Two years prior, she had lost her biggest cheerleader – her husband, who had passed away. On top of this, her new manager was constantly giving her negative feedback, much of it personalized, and didn’t provide support or tools for improving her work performance. Pat felt repeatedly and publicly denigrated in front of her peers and subordinates. Frustrating to say the least!

What We Did Together

The BreakThrough process is very well-suited for this type of issue because it literally “breaks through” the boundaries of a problem, allowing it to be reshaped or collapsed by the client’s unconscious mind with the new skills the client learns. My client began feeling the difference almost immediately as she began to understand how the events in her life had created the person she was in the present – one full of self-doubt, lack of self-worth and full of fear and anger. She realized her situation at work was a reflection of all those inner feelings.I taught her techniques for standing in her own power and new ways of perceiving the world around her. She soon found herself empowered to change her life and began doing so even before we finished the BreakThrough process. As the BreakThrough process started loosening the grip of the root causes of her problem and disconnecting old programs that were no longer appropriate for her today, she found herself able to follow through with the information she had picked up from self-help books in the past. By changing the way she thinks, she changed the way she FELT, and with that, she found the self-confidence to do the things she needed to do to grow personally, professionally, and spiritually.The End Result

She has since achieved goals she had been striving for with little success in the past, both professional and personal. Several months later, her family, friends, and coworkers are still amazed at the changes in her, and continue to tell her that they’ve never seen her so happy, positive, and sure of herself.

Her Testimonial

“My career was stalled. I knew what I needed to do, but for some reason, I doubted my ability to succeed in doing it and feared that I would fail. I was stuck and not moving forward in this vital area of my life.Then I spoke with Flo about this issue and she suggested that we do what she calls a Breakthrough to literally break through whatever barriers were creating my self-doubt and keeping me from succeeding in my chosen career field. We worked together for about nine hours over the course of a week and my life changed so much it not only amazed me, but everyone who knows me!

When Flo says “Change your emotions, change your life….” she really means it! The changes affected not only my work, but every area of my life, AND I learned techniques that I can now apply on my own to other issues that come up.’

Pat – Manager, Glens Falls, NY